Marriage is a good and honorable thing and every woman want to get married, be loved and care for, have peace ,joy ,raise children and build her home but many of them ended up with the wrong men and reverse becomes the case. This post may not be 100 percent accurate but it’s advisable you take it so serious during courtship or Dating to avoid un-necessary future regrets.
1. BUSY MAN: He never spends quality time with you, such men are always busy with work business family or friends, it’s a good sign that you will not enjoy his companionship, and you may not want to go into such. Note. Try to engage him on this, let him know you both need to spend quality time together for bonding and to share love and ideas but if refuses to change NOW (most of them do promise to change after the wedding, hey! That might never happen), you may want to walk away leaving him with the option of adjusting his schedule NOW to have you back or it’s over.
2. MUMMY’S BOY: some are obviously mummy’s pet while others are not,here are the CHARACTERISTICS, a. He calls mummy more often than any other person including you (wife to be). b. He is always talking about mummy even when you both are together, he makes mummy the topic for discussion. This is a good sign that you will never be his best friend, mummy will always be and you may not be comfortable with that.C. He takes permission from mummy to do almost everything. D. Mummy is always in his house and each time mummy is around he gives her the money meant for buying groceries and to cook then ask you to go get it from mummy, most times mummy does the buying while you do the cooking. Note. He will never change this attitude even after the wedding, you can’t come in between them, if you try to do, you may end paying with your life.
3. GENTLE DOG: he may not beat you up but he does spank you, he orders you around, shuts you up when you want to point out his faults or try to share your opinion on certain issues, he doesn’t womanize but u know he has other girl friends but never admits he does or tries to defend his action with the fact that you are yet to be married. He may become the next man we are about to discourse after wedding.
4. BEAST: He beats you up in the morning and apologizes in the night,yet he will always prove to you that he loves you with his gifts and care, he provides you with everything you need yet he embarrasses you in front of his or your friends. He brings in another woman when you are not around and when he gets caught by you be beats you up and later come back to regret his misdeeds. He demands Sex from you with force when ever he wishes and you dare not say NO unless you want to die, yet he still Loves you so much, most times his excuses are he’s trying to protect you. He never want to see you with any other man or for you to receive calls from men.
5.COMPLAINANT/LOSER: he’s always pointing accusing fingers on you, the family, leaders and the society at large. He blames the parents for not giving him enough resources and support, the government for not doing anything to help him or to provide him with job, and the society for not giving him a platform to unleash his potentials. He always envisage doom and dark-end rather than light and a brighter future,yet he claims he has a lot to offer if giving a chance ( you and i know that no one is ready to come to your house to give you a chance coz we all need a change)
6. MR PERFECT/WRIGHT : Most professors, barristers and military men falls into this category, they know it better than others, always wright in there own eyes, they will never allow you to correct them.These set of individuals are very difficult to please. May i also tell you that you can’t change them, if you get married to them, just get ready to argue and try to pleasing them for the rest of your life.Lastly,
7. THE CATS: very dangerous set of individuals yet they appear to be a lamb. They hide their true identity and most times people mistake them for gentle men, they will not complain of your behaviors yet they are not happy with it, they listen to get your opinion and suggestions yet they will never make use of it, you can hardly notice when you offend them coz they will not show it or say anything about it, yet they wish you dead. He will never make his plans known to you they live secretive life, so hard to read their heart and thoughts, you will only know their next line of action when it commences. Very poisonous people , they can kill without traces, i fear them so much. If you have them for friend, please be careful with them, coz they will smile in your face and stab you at the back. I know one he never complain of his wife till one day when they had a family meeting, this man brought up even the issues that happened 7 years earlier his wife was shocked and afraid he could harbor such hatred in his mind for over 7 year sand she never got to know about it.
Silent killers beware of them…..continues….Thanks for taking out time to read this blog post please i will love to have your comments on this .
I wish you Love.