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The True Meaning Of Marriage

My friend said “no one is gonna penalize you for late entry into marriage

Just take your time and get married when you are very sure you are ready …


This is the True Meaning of Marriage simplified.

To go into marriage you need the following;

1. Maturity and Money: please note that maturity has nothing to do
with your age, once you are matured enough to handle point 3,4,5 and 8
below your are good to go. Money on the other hand is very important
in marriage. Though some people say “no money no love” but I want you
understand that Love must come first before money in marriage. You can
love without money but for the sake of Success-In-Marriage, money is
needed because Money Lubricates the Engine of Love in Marriage.

2. Accountability: Yes! You are and must be accountable to your spouse.

3. Responsibility: marriage is a place of taking responsibility for
your actions and for the family. While it is the responsibility of the
man to provide for the family, it is the responsibility of the woman
to take care of the home(including the children).

4. Respect: You must respect your spouse’s views and personality.

5. Insult: you must be ready to take insults from your spouse. It is
not advisable to insult your spouse, it is actually very wrong to
insult your partner but you must make up your mind to take it when it
mistakenly comes.
Key Point: think of the worst things someone can say to you and it
will really hurt you so badly, forgive him/her of it before “YES I

6. Appreciation: this is a vital ingredient for a healthy marriage.
Learn to appreciate your spouse’s little gifts, sacrifices and

7. Give: marriage is a place of giving, giving and giving. Don’t even
think of taking. (it is NOT a place for Give and Take)
Warning: this must Not be one sided, it has to be equal, mutual and selfless.
Things To Give.
* Time
* Resources
* Energy
* Prayer
* Support
* Encouragement
* Life (Yes!).

8. Endurance: this is needed in all marriage and if you are very sure
that you can’t endure bad, tough and most difficult times with that
person please Never you get married to him/her. Situations, actions
and behaviors that will require you to endure (most times for a very
long time) will surly arise, therefore you must be prepared and ready
for it.

Finally, remember that God is the head of all marriages, so it is
therefore required of you to give him a chance in your marriage so
that he will give you more understanding.

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